THE FORMULA TO SUCCESSFUL, SUSTAINABLE FLR: FOR WOMEN
Advice from a girl who has been in charge fro a while.
My man is i n CHASTITY pretty much all the time. In the beginning, it took me a while to understand the purpose of chastity. It took him a while to get used to a foreign body attached to his member. But once I got used to the power, there has been no going back.
TEASING is become our daily routine and I just adore being a blue balls queen. Seeing his frustration and hearing him beg is both fun and huge turn on for me.
Most of the teasing I perform with his cage on. I remove the cage for tease and play once in a while, sometimes as reward, or if I want an occasional real cock. But only when his hands are bound. This way I am in total CONTROL, all of the time.
EDGING AND DENIAL are essential to melt his mind into state of fully obedience and humility. Prolonged denial increases it all. For how long one should deny the other, is completely up to the denier&hellip ;in this case ME :)
Prolonged denial increases it all. How long should any of this last? Well that is completely up to the one in charge. Me/ should deny the other, is completely up to the girl… in this case ME : )
RUINED ORGASMS keep your submissive healthy but are not satisfying and that keeps him horny.
If you can make him cum while wearing chastity, it is also a ruined unsatisfying cum. And of course all that unsatisfied horniness results in him being the best partner in the world. ATTENTIVE, HUMBLE, OBEDIENT.
PEGGING nicely deals with the ego issue as it is about the most humiliating thing for him and empowering thing for you. If you do it with his cage on, double that feeling. And if you manage to make him have a ruined orgasm in his cage, just by pegging. So proud of myself : )
Dealing with his ego is important or he will forget his place in your relationship. You want someone who feels good about themselves, is confident and successful. But when it coms to the two of you, who do you think should feel more important and entitled? : )
A FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP results in a humble and obedient husband.
There is some good advice here.